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When a client hires you, remember that they are not just YOUR wedding client, but they are also a client of a photographer, stationery designer, venue, etc. We need to all work as a team. Don’t forget that we are all trying to give the wedding couple an outstanding experience and if the wedding professionals are having power struggles, the client will not be happy.
Here are a few examples of the MY CLIENT syndrome that have been shared with us from anonymous wedding professionals:
Scenario 1: WEDDING PLANNER MUST CONTROL EVERYTHING
Client (C) hires wedding planner (WP). WP refers client to stationery designer (SD). WP tells SD that they should have NO contact with C and all correspondence should go through WP. WP tries to explain what client wants in terms of stationery design. SD puts together a design scheme based on WP’s requests. WP shows the designs to client (and SD still is not “allowed” to email or call them directly or meet with them in person.) C isn’t thrilled with the designs and has lost trust in SD. WP claims to have given SD direction based on C’s desires. Unfortunately, C’s desires got lost in translation to SD. Stationery process takes longer because SD has to rework the design several times to create what the client wants.
Problem: SD never got to create an experience for the client. Instead the experience was created for them by WP.
Solution: WP and SD work together as a team (and both check their egos at the door.) SD says thank you to WP for referring SD and lets WP know that SD would like to schedule a meeting (or conference call) with WP and C to discuss stationery options. WP, SD and C attend the meeting together. After meeting, SD sends proposal to C and cc’s WP so that everyone is kept on the same page. C signs agreement and sends to SD and cc’s WP. SD emails C designs and cc’s WP. C loves designs. SD knew from the start what C wanted. WP was kept in the loop on everything so that she could do her job and keep C organized and on time. Everyone is happy.
Scenario 2: BRIDAL SHOP CONSULTANT VS. WEDDING PLANNER
Wedding Planner (WP) takes Client (C) to bridal shop and they meet with Bridal Shop Consultant (BSC.) BSC takes C back to try on dresses. BSC is doing a great job with C and helping C try on amazing dresses. BSC acts like WP is not there. BSC never says thank you for bringing C into the store. WP tries to give feedback on dresses. BSC tells WP what their C wants and continues to act as though WP has no brains and started her business yesterday. At the end of the appointment, BSC calls C over and gives the information to them without including WP. WP and C leave the salon and C bought new dress.
Problem: BSC treated WP like a child instead of a colleague and now WP is not so sure that WP will bring more brides into visit with BSC.
Solution: Treat everyone as a client. BSC should want to make the process for C and the WP a good one. WP should also want the process to be great with BSC and C. If they had both seen C as OURS instead of MINE, the whole experience would have been different. BSC should have welcomed C and WP with open arms and then C would have found her dress, WP would have wanted to brings more clients to BSC, WP would have followed-up with a thank you and the relationship would have been one of friends instead of competitors.
Scenario 3: VENUE DOESN’T PLAY NICE WITH THE PHOTOGRAPHER
Photographer (P) is hired to photograph the wedding of Client (C.) P meets C at venue to discuss wedding day and invites Venue Coordinator(VC) to join them. VC attends the meeting and immediately takes over the meeting and tells C what the photographers usually do. C becomes worried because they want certain photos taken and VC is adamant that there is a way that works best and it is different than what P had explained. P becomes irritated with VC and now the C is unhappy.
Problem: VC was so busy informing C about what other photographers do that VC missed the part where C hired P because they didn’t do the same stuff that other photographers do.
Solution: VC and P need to speak to one another as colleagues and not the enemy. VC and P should work together to provide the best wedding day for C. Maybe P should have spoken to VC before the meeting so that VC knew what was being discussed and they could have cleared up any issues prior to meeting with the C.
So, morale to each story:
1. Respect your colleagues and don’t talk down to them (aka check your egos at the door.)
2. Work as a team instead of against each other.
3. Remember that the client is not just YOUR client.